October 25, 2007

Relationship Talk!

She: I’m not happy because you are not fully committed to me.
He: I’m not happy because you are not happy because I’m not fully committed to you.
She: So you are not happy because you’re not fully committed to me!
He: No. I’m not happy because you are not happy. And I’m not committed to you because I’m not happy.

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October 9, 2007

Why Do Other Couples Look Happier Than You?

Have you ever noticed that almost all other couples out there look happier than you in your relationship life?

Have you ever wondered if this is really true???

Chances are, many couples display a public façade of happiness when, in reality, they may be struggling, or even living in their own private hell. We hide it not only from strangers, but also from friends.

And so, we may feel alone in our struggles, each one holding the secret that their relationship is not perfect!

Relationships are not perfect! Nor do people deserve so much suffering!

We sometimes hold the dream of a Hollywood happy ending until, one day, there is a breakup, and nobody saw it coming?

Let’s share the truth of our relationship struggles! With ourselves first, and with a trusted friend. Or a therapist, if needed.

We might end up being happier than those happy-looking couples!

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